Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Dance of My Life


Deep Map
Life is like a dance, each new day is a new step that adds to it, until the final performance. Each one of the steps has its own difficulty level some require more practice while others are fun and easy to learn. Everyone has their own story to tell and each one shapes a life by the people and events in it. Mine has been shaped by my family, friends, church, music and dancing, and everything in between. Every one of these has influenced the steps more than once during my life.

My family is a big part of who I am. They are always there when I need them and I love spending time with them. My parents are Joe and Rachel. They are always there for me and give me advice when I ask for it or not. My mom and dad are also my teachers. They inspire me to try new things and will help me learn or will learn right alongside of me. Then there are those times when I have needed help on my homework and they will always lend a hand. My dad is the person I go to if I just want to talk about my day. He will listen and comment on what I had to say. I love talking to my dad he knows how to cheer me up and just make me laugh. I also like talking to my mom. She knows how to help me get through a situation that is causing me a lot of trouble. She knows just what to say and when. Then there are my siblings Michaela, Timothy, and Sarah. I am closest to my sister Michaela. She and I have gone through so much together and she seems to know when I need her help. We have our differences and fights, but they never last long. We can always figure them out. I'm so glad I have Michaela by my side. My brother and I don't always get along, but there are those times. I love playing video games or watching a movie with him. We laugh and make jokes the entire time. My youngest sister Sarah and I aren't as close as I am to Michaela, but we share a few common interests, the biggest one is drawing. We have different interests when it comes to the subject of the drawings, but who cares it is something I can share with her. It's hard for me to understand my two youngest siblings because of our age difference, but we still know how to have a good time.


Friends play a part as well. I have had a great number of friends. One of my best friends has been with me since first grade, Chelsea. She and I hung out all the time when we were in elementary together and she is the only one who kept in contact with me when I transferred schools after third grade. We were still close when I came back in middle school. I love having her around. Another one of my best friends is Maddie. She came in 8th grade. She and I got along great and did a lot of things together. Then she had to move after 9th grade to Lincoln, but we still keep in contact. Morgan is my best friend as well. She and I really hit it off after high school started. She always knows how to make me smile and likes to challenge me to many things. Morgan is just fun to be around. She and I joke around a lot and have fun all the time when we're together. I have many more friends that have had an impact on me, but to name them all would take them a long time.


Church has been a big part of me. I have been going to church for as long as I can remember. I have gone to Cubbies, Sparks, and TNT. They all have impacted my life. They have also challenged me. The church I had been going to for most of my life did something my parents didn't agree with, and the next two didn't help either. Luckily we have finally found a church that feels like home again. It has also helped me grow in my faith and relationship with God. The hardships have all made me change and learn. It has taught me that you can't believe everything you are told. You must look in your Bible and find out the truth for yourself, but I love finally having a church family and home.


Music and dancing has been something that has been with me through thick and thin. I have been dancing since I was four. I was never taught a specific way to dance. It was just me and the music. I made my own style of dancing and listened to Christian and Christmas music. My style grew and changed. When I was little dancing was nothing but spinning, which is probably why I can spin for a long time and not get dizzy. But as I grew older I added cartwheels and summer salts and many more. Now I have a style that still includes my spins, but has many different aspects to it. My dance and choice of music would show you what I was feeling. It was also a way to release some of my stress and anger. Music and dance is also just and enjoyment for me. I have fun doing it.


Then there are those events in my life that changed me forever. The biggest is when my Grandma Ruby died. She died on January 1, 2003. It took a while to get over that and I still miss her and so does the rest of my family. Another big event was when I transferred schools. The whole reason I did was because it was a school in which I could talk about and study God. It changed me. I have a whole new perspective on what is around me.


My life is a dance. It is developing day by day until the time comes in which I must perform it. Every part of my life has created a new step. I don't know how my dance will change in years, months or even days to come, but I know I am going to go forward. My family, friends, church, music and dancing, and everything else will be right there to help and push me through. Dance is a way I express who I am. Everyone in my life has added to it and there is going to be many more to come.

Tradition









The artifact I brought was candy. The tradition that goes with it is about what my mom used to do when she was little. My grandma, her mom made a devotion booklet for Christmas. It has stories and devotions for each story which was read every day before Christmas. It had 24 stories in it. And for each night there was a piece of candy for my mom and her two sisters. After the story and devotion was read each one got a piece. The candy was tied to a piece of fabric my grandma had designed. My mom said it was very beautiful. It was made out of velvet with many decorations on it. There were three rows each with with 24 pieces of candy. That was a tradition my mom did when she was little around Christmas time.

Turn up the Music by Lemonade Mouth

1 comment:

  1. I really like how you talked about each member of your family and what they mean to you and how they shape who you are. I also like it that music has shaped your life too. That's just cool. I would love to read more about your artifact. It such an interesting story! Nice job.

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